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What's the proper etiquette for splitting a restaurant bill with a group?

Asked by Donna Vasquez — Sep 22, 2025 — Society & Culture Resolved

Whenever I go out to eat with a big group, the bill always becomes awkward. Some people order expensive entrees and drinks, others just get a salad. Do you split it evenly or does everyone pay for exactly what they got? What about tax and tip? How do you handle this without seeming cheap or getting stuck overpaying?

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admin — Score: 3

There's a difference between something being rude and something just being different from what you're used to. I try to ask myself that whenever I get annoyed by how other people do things. Usually it's just different, not wrong.

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admin — Sep 23, 2025

There's a difference between something being rude and something just being different from what you're used to. I try to ask myself that whenever I get annoyed by how other people do things. Usually it's just different, not wrong.

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Alice Hartwell — Sep 25, 2025

This is one of those topics where there's no single right answer — it depends heavily on your values and circumstances. I'd encourage you to look at it from multiple perspectives before forming a strong opinion.

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Avtoservis_gmei — Sep 25, 2025

The cultural context matters a lot here. What's considered normal or acceptable varies enormously between different regions, generations, and social groups. There's no universal standard on this.

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Bob Nakamura — Sep 23, 2025

The media loves to make everything sound like a huge crisis because fear sells papers and gets ratings. Take what you see on the news with a grain of salt. Most people in real life are decent and reasonable.

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Avtoservis_hnei — Sep 22, 2025

My grandmother always said the more things change, the more they stay the same. Every generation thinks the one after it is going to ruin everything, and somehow the world keeps turning. I try to keep that perspective.

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Avtoservis_inei — Sep 23, 2025

I'd ask your parents or grandparents how things were when they were your age. You'll be surprised — a lot of what feels brand new today actually happened before in a slightly different form. History rhymes.

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