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How do I keep my kids safe on instant messenger?

Asked by Grace Tanaka — Jan 6, 2026 — Technology & Internet Open

My kids use AIM and MSN Messenger constantly to talk to their friends. I'm worried about strangers contacting them. How do I make sure they're only talking to people they actually know? Can I see their buddy lists or messages? Is there parental control software for instant messaging?

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Avtoservis_gmei — Jan 9, 2026

Be REALLY careful what you download to fix this. Half the 'free fix-it' programs you find are spyware in disguise. Stick to known-good stuff like the tools from major sites, and always scan downloads with your antivirus before running them.

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admin — Jan 9, 2026

It depends a lot on your connection speed. If you're still on dial-up, some of this just isn't going to work well no matter what. Broadband makes a night-and-day difference. Is DSL or cable available in your area yet?

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Alice Hartwell — Jan 9, 2026

My advice: don't overthink it. Pick the option that works best for your situation right now. Technology changes every 2-3 years anyway so nothing you choose today is permanent. The best technology is the one you actually use.

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